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Reply to "Is my wife being unrealistic about her expectations of my work life balance?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Your wife is struggling because you have two young children, and you are doing a little less than before. I don’t think anyone is being “unreasonable” but I also don’t understand how you could add a baby and do less, and then be baffled that your wife has noticed and cares. I’m not even saying it’s not the right arrangement for you both, but how could it just happen with no consequences? That’s a very weird expectation to me. Your wife is not handling this right, and you not working is not necessarily a good solution, but I get where she’s coming from. If I were her and you were as baffled as you seem to be in this post, I would be full of rage. And postpartum, rage is bigger and badder than usual. So maybe don’t play the dumb card so hard. [/quote]
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