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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you able to magically produce the perfect partners for them?  I don’t see how this is any of your concern. [/quote]

Perfect partners do not exist.  But, you can absolutely find good matches through word of mouth, online ads, matchmakers, dating websites, friends etc.  And parents and relatives need to be involved in this search with the consent of the young people.  They should be seen as unofficial matchmakers too.

At the end of it, young people  still need to meet each other and spend time one-on-one after the initial introduction to figure out if they want to marry or not etc.  However, young people need to get into this whole exercise with the intention that they want to settle down.  They should be dating to get married.

At this age, regardless of it you are straight or gay, you also need to bring the qualities to the table that other people look for in a spouse.  No one has the time to waste several years in a futile relationship.

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