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[quote=Anonymous]I get you,  OP. Most of those replying probably don't have to deal with difficult elderly parents.  You only have so much time in your life and your father is asking you to waste it because he wants to be difficult.
Most doctors also won't understand and expect you to be able to "make" your father do the right thing.

I learned to say over and over again, in regards to my mother, "She has full agency of her decisions.  She doesn't want, I cannot, and I will not be drawn into the decisions she makes for herself ." It is like pleading the 5th in court.  I've had to repeat it three or four times in some appointments.  (Of course then my mother later says I must not really care about her if I didn't push her to follow doctor's orders.  --sigh)

Agree with utilizing the portal.  If you have a release to discuss with them, I send a message. "He doesn't want to take the full dose. He only wants to take half a dose. Should he do that or not take any?" If he can take a half a dose and is able to cut the pills himself he can do that. If he can't then he can take it every other day.

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