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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would very intentionally and openly redefine the marriage and let him know that I’m staying for the sake of finances and stability, but I am no longer here to love or support him as a wife. I will be seeing other people, feel free to do the same (as though he isn’t already). [/quote] Thank you - this is exactly what I've been thinking. For now, I feel like it's the only solution. Yes, I will have resentment, but I've had it for years and have learned how to deal and compartmentalize. Probably not the healthiest approach, but it works for me. [/quote] In your situation, there is no perfect approach - please prioritize yourself and your happiness, as your “husband” has been (misguidedly). As someone who’s BTDT, beware posting on DCUM for advice: you will have nasty posters like the one on page one that love to victim blame and pile on. There are some real psychos on this site. Wishing you the very best. [/quote]
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