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Reply to "50/50 with three kids, partially splitting up the kids?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This sounds like codependent parents who can’t bear being alone - your willingness to strip your kids of engagement with siblings because you two choose to divorce is kind of staggering. [/quote] This is really unfair. One night a week they would be without their siblings. If an intact family had a parent take their kid one a special outing once a week would you say this? Is my ex allowed to take any of my kids on a one on one dinner without "stripping my kids of engagement". [/quote] Intact families are no longer your barometer as you’ve chosen to divorce with three young kids. Now you go to plan b, which is clarity and simplicity for the kids and the new (two) homes you’ve created for them to grow up in. This will be a mess as parents start dating and kids start driving. Just simplify and let everyone accept and adjust to your decision. [/quote] I am actually not choosing to divorce, but trying to make the best of a bad situation. That's for the kind words though. [/quote]
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