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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Is this a joke? Women’s unrealistic dating standards are already overwhelmingly responsible for the current broken dating market. In our “cheap sex” culture, of course some man who is a 10 was willing to bang a woman who is a 6 a few times. Now the 6 forevermore thinks she deserves to be married to a 10, not understanding that there’s a difference between who men will sleep with when they’re horny and who they will make a lifetime commitment to.

Advising women to hold out for “the perfect man who meets 100% of [their] long list of requirements” is actually insane. Do you think your dad was a 100% perfect Prince Charming? No, he was a human being with flaws, just like your mom—and yet society thrived with these matches.
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[quote]But see, this is the problem. Women don't know what is a valid standard to require of a future husband vs what is a nice to have that they could do without.
Because people like you encourage women to feel lucky to receive any male attention at all that they settle for breadcrumbs and end up wasting their prime dating years.
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NP - The first poster did not say they encourage women to feel lucky to receive any male attention.

The poster stated the truth, which is that women often confuse their hookup value with the lifetime partner value. Using the example above, the 6 woman who hooked up with the 10 man will 1) let the 10 breadcrumber for the occasional hookup, 2) let other attractive men do the same, and 3) hold out for 8 or above man to marry.

The truth is the 8+ man will not marry the 6- girl. He wants his equal, an 8+ woman. However, he will nail as many 6 (and below) girls as possible because they let him.

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