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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Anonymous wrote: He is 21. Go home. +1000000 Let him hit his own rock bottom and deal with it himself. You are enabling him OP. GO HOME. [/quote] This. The hard thing about parenting young adults is that you need to drop the rope enough to let them experience the natural consequences of bad choices. It may take several years. Just decide what level of support you are willing to provide. It is clear to our young adults that they always have a home they can come home to. But I am not a 20-something group house and no one is moving back home to sit on the couch all day and do bong hits. Having a roof provided for you free of charge comes with some expectations about getting oneself together. [/quote]
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