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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you really want to spend that much time with your mom or is it the feeling of imbalance that is bothering you?[/quote]

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Somewhere in between - we made a plan for a girls weekend 2.5 years ago that had to be canceled bc of health issues my dad had.  Every time I bring up rescheduling its "oh that sounds really fun....we'll have to find a time..." yet she's done several things with my sister over the 2 years.  I wouldn't want to and it wouldn't be possible to do it as regularly as my sister but I'd like for it to happen sometimes.  She's at the age where health could change on a dime and it could become impossible to do some of things ever again.  Same with my kids visiting them on their own - I have such special memories of that as a kid with my grandma, my parents are still up for it physically and energy wise, just prioritized other things (trips on their own and time with my sisters family) over it.  It's not that I want to "dump my kids on them" or need the childcare, I want the closeness for my kids that they have with my sisters kids....or at least some of it.  And to not feel like we get the leftovers of their time and priorities[/quote]

Do you ever spend time together with your sister?[/quote]

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