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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH says he loves me. But what he loves is the comfort being with me. Not always, of course, but he makes sure to correct me when my behavior makes him uncomfortable. After 15 years of marriage, I realized that he did not care and never cared how to make me enjoy the time with him. He never cared to make me O, can’t remember the foods I dislike, never tries to fix broken things around the house that bug me. He claims to love me, and I tell him it’s not the right word. He’s not a villain, [b]nor does anything to intentionally upset me[/b]. He just dgaf. I can’t make him care. I feel defeated. [/quote]

I'm not sure how long you've been married, but honestly, this is a pretty big deal.

Also, my husband makes fun of me because I always get certain food preferences wrong. Right now, I can't tell you if he loves or loathes green or black olives, but it's one of the two. I ordered him a drink once and he was like why on earth did you think I liked that? I bought him a snack at the gas station one time because I saw it and thought he loved it. Nope, he hates them. I adore my husband, but for some reason I cannot tell you all his food preferences, and even the other day I was surprised when he said he wouldn't like something that I thought he'd love and we've been together 15 years.

As for never fixing broken things that bug you, why should he fix them? Can you not? My husband is in charge of certain things (i.e. light bulbs), so when one goes out I tell him because it bothers me and he fixes it. But if the towel rack in the bathroom broke, he might fix it but he might also be like, why don't you fix it because it doesn't bother me? And that's fair.[/quote]

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