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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. It a really awful to accuse me of being careless and doing stuff wrong, or being impatient. The opposite is true. I am her caregiver 9 mi this per year as she refuses outside help. If anything, I do too much for her. My sister does nothing and that’s ok - it’s her decision. I don’t want to be taken advantage of - I have more than enough on my plate with full time work, a chronic health condition, and absentee husband with no income and kids of my own. For my mom to expect me to be her servant - that’s just a bit much.[/quote] You definitely have to much on your plate. What resources are available for your mom’s care? While I sympathize with your feelings, I think you are being unrealistic in assigning blame to your mom. She has dementia. Get advice from her doctor. [/quote]
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