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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our parents are still independent, but we had a conversation that is making me think: What do we owe our aging parents in terms of staying close by? [b][u]They made it clear[/u] to us that being nearby is important as they age, that it is our responsibility to look after them, and that we should not move away until they are gone. [/b]

Given that they had us young and the longevity in our family, it’s conceivable that we could be caring for them until we ourselves are 80 or so.

We reassured them that if we decided to make a move out of state after we retire, we would either ask them to relocate with us or make sure they had care in the form of assisted living or in-home aides. I don’t think they liked this answer.

I understand that it’s important to look after our parents, but does that mean sacrificing our own desires in terms of where to live??? [/quote]
Lol! Why do you allow someone else to dictate your life? They cannot control where you live or how much support you give them. Live your own life.

Entitled parents like this p*** me off. You don't have children so they can be your indentured servants and be your nurse in old age. [/quote]

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