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[quote=Anonymous][b]They made it clear to us that being nearby is important as they age, that it is our responsibility to look after them, and that we should not move away until they are gone.[/b] They don't get to decide this. They can share their wishes and ask that you consider them, but you are not at all obligated to care for them until they die, or be stuck living wherever they live. Now, if you're Asian, this may sound completely crazy. But, I'm white, and don't feel any obligation. My parents took mediocre care of me as a child, and they were the ones who chose to have me. I did not choose them, and I chose not to be saddled with their care. Just different ways of thinking. You pick whichever avenue works best for your conscience. [/quote]
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