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[quote=Anonymous]I understand not liking cats or any pets but that is something you need to be 100% upfront on when dating. Anyone I’ve known with a pet, love their pets! You don’t get to change their mind about their feelings.

And certainly not before you have even attempted to live with the cat. If you tolerated it when you slept over when dating, you can tolerate it now ( or you lied to your partner and just said you did.)

We got a cat when first married. We had it three days and I found out I was terribly allergic. Our friends took it, and we did not get another pet ( a dog) until 2 years later.

My dh grew up with dogs and absolutely wanted one and said he’d take the lead. 20 years later, that’s exactly what he has done - but the dogs always bond me with me😀. I love them too but he does all the real work.

I don’t offer a lot of tough opinions on here but this time I think you are very much in the wrong as you had all this information about yourself and cats, and so you must have on some level kept it “ hidden” believing you’d get your way once married. Not an honest, loving way to begin marriage. If you push this, I think it will do irreparable harm to your marriage ( which may be short-lived.)[/quote]

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