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Reply to "That “done” feeling- how long can it last?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I’m figuring out the same thing op. Dh has also said he’s done working on anything and “just be happy”. Which I think means stfu about any needs you have. And as long as I do, he’s pleasant and we can have a pleasant like on his terms. [/b]And I’m making that trade off for the kids wellbeing bc I think trying to coparent with him would be chaotic and vindictive. But I can’t even imagine him in my retirement years - there’s no longer any emotional role for him in my life. I don’t see that changing - I don’t think I can ever forgive him for everything [/quote] Yes, same thing here, same exact thing, almost the same words. He is done working on the marriage and wants to “be happy.” Being happy means doing whatever he wants. My needs and feelings can be considered if they are not an obstacle to him. I don’t think my husband would be chaotic or vindictive, he’s not a vindictive person. But he is a little selfish at his core.[/quote]
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