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Reply to "That “done” feeling- how long can it last?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand this. How can you be done and have a “good life” with him. Are you faking it?[/quote] Not quite faking it. But my feelings about The Marriage don’t take a ton of my mental space unless I purposely think about it. We have kids, friends, work, hobbies. And I’m actually pretty ok with him most of the time. I think I could plod along like this indefinitely. When I stop and contemplate my life and what I really want in my future, that’s when things hit a snag. In my mind I have a picture of my future, and he’s not in it. I feel this incredibly deeply, like in my bones. I read about people getting over a “rough patch” in the marriage and I have this weird negative visceral reaction. I don’t know if that makes sense.[/quote]
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