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[quote=Anonymous]In your own words, you're looking for a sweet girl next door type. It is the norm for women on IG (like this one at the networking event) to have "computer brain", i.e. be perpetually online attempting to project their best self, getting hit on (and frequently entertaining) offers by random men more attractive than you, and otherwise having an attention-seeking, abundance-based mindset.

A few years back, I was into a girl at my workplace who had all the usual SM profiles. She canceled last-minute twice on dates I arranged. Several months later she became official with another guy. Fast-forward to a couple months ago, and she told me with a straight face that she has men buy her drinks at bars, leaving an open question as to whether she goes beyond that (flirting, ONS, etc.) with said men, and said her boyfriend doesn't mind.

Talk about dodging a bullet. I often told myself, "What if her flaking on me was a gift?", and that right there erased any doubt I might've still had.

So yeah, don't waste your time on women with a social media presence, and go where the "girl next door" types are. I'd recommend volunteering at no-kill shelters, going to community suppers, enrolling in dance classes, attending a agricultural fair, etc. for under-30 "girl next door" types.

If you're Christian, then conservative churches with a younger community (e.g. Traditional Latin Mass for Catholics) are also good, but beware of the "born-again virgin" types. A genuine "girl next door" type is all about upbringing, not finding Jesus at 25, so you have to think in terms of places that women with a deeply-rooted, wholesome upbringing will frequent.[/quote]

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