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[quote=Anonymous]I am someone who constantly talks about others behind their backs. As I am thinking about this...I have never really thought about why I do it...in most cases, I am speaking badly about someone who has hurt me, quite badly, but for whatever reason I am still expected to be in their life and interact with them. So I will vent to my other friends about my encounter with them to verify that I am not in fact crazy and said person is mean/rude/unhinged. I don't think I talk badly about friends or family who have not hurt me. If someone is kind to me...I always say nice things about them. I also think I have an assertiveness/low self esteem issue where I cannot stand up for myself so I try to make myself feel better by venting about their poor behavior to sympathetic ears. I guess...hanging around toxic people makes you toxic. [/quote]
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