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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks, all.  I will ask the counselor.

He has a 3.6 GPA but just stopped doing work this year.  He doesn't have an IEP or 504. He doesn't need a tutor; now that he's actually doing the work, he's getting decent grades. I just think it's too late for this quarter.

We rent and our lease is up in June. I don't think we will stay in the county and I wasn't sure whether summer school would work.  I didn't know about OPTG - I will ask about that.

Thank you.

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If he just stopped doing work, then you should remove and erase all privileges. You’re the parent, crack down.[/quote]

Also, please reconsider your parenting practices. The question should not be how do “I dig my kid out.” Your kid dug this hole. He will either dig himself out or learn a very hard (and valuable) lesson that people who don’t work for something don’t get rewarded. It’s almost impossible (unless it’s like a AP class or something) for kids to fail in MCPS if they are doing the bare minimum. I’m pretty sure I would get fired if I had “work avoidance.” Same thing for school. Stop trying to save your kid. They are almost an adult and need to face the music. [/quote]

Spoken by someone who has not been there and done that. The kids needs saving until they get into college, that's the hard truth these days. I saved my kid so many times in high school - he had a really rough 4 years of it. Once he got into college, it was much smoother sailing and I didn't have to lift a finger. He'd matured and he wasn't as stressed out and sleep deprived, since he could roll out of bed and go to 9 am classes (instead of waking up at 6 and taking a long bus to school); and most of the coursework was in his desired major, topics he actually wanted to learn about.

OP, do your best for your kid. High school is hard, and he deserves the help. His brain is not mature yet. He will be able to save himself in the future, and he will remember kindly all the support you gave him.

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