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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The older people I meet who don’t date/never married seem very fussy and particular. I think they prefer life alone and not having to share. Not how I’d like to live personally, but some people are like that.[/quote] This has been my observation as well. They tend to have some antisocial tendencies, isolatory hobbies, unrealistic standards for dating in one's 40s (as if they're still a young college student), low agreeability, etc. OP said her sister is not overweight, but didn't say she was conventionally attractive. I wonder if she has any unpleasant features like a big nose, broad shoulders, lanky height, no endowment, etc. that lead to her feeling very self-conscious about dating? OP also mention her having a social job and some friends, but I wonder if she's socially active outside her work and friend circles. She may be a bit awkward in that area and not meeting new people. Perhaps she likes it that way. It'd help if we knew a little more about her, but even then, there's probably nothing OP can do to change her way of thinking.[/quote]
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