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[quote=Anonymous]Im the executor for my mom (when the time comes). I also am responsible for her care. Sibling opted out. I took several weeks off work, flew across the country to clean out moms home of 50 years, oversee renovations and manage rental process. I pack led her and moved her and set her up in a new place here and am about to mover her again unfortunately. I have spent anywhere from 4-20 hours a week dealing with her decline over the last year, not to mention driving an additional 60-90 miles a week, while trying to hang onto my job and family. . My sibling has visited once in 3 years and occasionally answers a text from me. I would consider charging my mom for my time and mileage but her care costs have gone up to more than 11k/mo. Also she can’t really consent anymore. Still it burns me that sibling will get half with having done nothing. [/quote]
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