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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.

To all you guys (or girls) who think putting your sex partner in one room with your kid overnight is a good idea - I hope you think twice before actually doing it.
 
Talked to my lawyer and this is one of the things that courts can definitely address. Some people have it in the court order, meaning if you still do it, you will be held in contempt. If it still doesn't matter to you, than I hope you think if your kid really needs this, especially when your new relationship is in an early or unstable stage. And once it moves to a more stable stage, please figure out how to introduce your partner to your kid and your kid to your partner and how you will navigate them both through this new structure. I've been in those step-parent shoes and know how critical it is. It may help to read some literature on step-family issues.

It's not about my problem with someone getting laid or being in love or whatever. It's not about me being opposed to the new relationship. I am not. I am even for it as it may take some pressure of me.

Big thanks all who commented with the focus on child’s interest.[/quote]

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