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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Make sure you cry in private. I have an emotionally unregulated mother and it's always been awkward and cringey. This has pushed me away. It's fine to be sad though, we all are at important junctures in life. Just be happy and cheerful in front of him. [/quote]
This is ridiculous. It is fine for a parent to cry a little and for an AC to know that their parent is both happy and sad. As long as you’re not hysterical or putting a guilt trip on them it’s fine. He’s a 24 year old young man who should be capable of understanding that transitions can have some pain. Mom and Dad have had him at home which has allowed him to save money instead of renting. This sounds like a nice, normal family with healthy relationships. Stop trying to make mothers be Doris Day. [/quote]

Cry a little = fine. Cry every time you see them = not fine. See, not difficult. [/quote

Maybe you should take a little emotion from your mom instead of coming across and a frosty bi---- when someone tries to give you a different perspective. [/quote]

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