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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you are the one with some problems.  Get a grip![/quote]

Consider yourself lucky if your kids were born healthy and without disability and if they aren't risk takers. Just curious, do you have kids? If so, are they all healthy and disability free? What gender? Have they ever made choices that could have been life-threatening? 
 
   I hope you never have to experience almost losing a child in the womb, having a terrible labor, wondering if your newborn is going to make it, having your child diagnosed with a disability which is probably 5 times more likely in boys and then sitting in the ER wishing your child didn't make a particular choice.[/quote]

Glad you asked. I have two boys and one was born with an auto-inflamatory disease that is very trying on him, we have been to the ER at a minimum of a dozen times and have experienced full blown hospitalizations and surgical procedures. And YES they are boys so they swing from the cieling fans and sometimes get hurt.

However, as a mother and a GUIDE for my children I do not wallow in his illness, nor do I treat him differently than any other healthy child, nor do I let my anxietey rule my thoughts and actions.  People are born with flaws (even girls!) and it is NOT a miracle that they make it in life, it is expected.  I have high standards for my children that will not be comprimised due to any challenges they may encounter in life.

As a parent it is my responsiblity to be their rock and be a source of emotional stablity.  Please, for the love of your children, calm down.[/quote]

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