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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"wow! How will you figure out the child care thing? Once you share one, will you help each other with child care?"

I'd be asking out of nosiness though as I don't think this person actually wants help or wants to think about it.[/quote]

It's none of your business how they will figure out childcare. It doesn't sound like they are asking OP for help with any of their children, so it's NONE of her business how they choose to take care of their children. [/quote]

DP, not the PP to whom you're referring but: DCUM is so hypocritical. On subjects like this, we get the "MYOB!" comments. Then we get posts from people lamenting how they ended up in crappy marriages with parenting issues and they say: "I wish someone had spoken up to me at the time!" So which is it? A real friend speaks up and at least asks some questions to help the person think things through? Or a real friend must stay clammed up and pretend they don't see a train wreck coming?

The OP's friend and her boyfriend are not, as some here keep saying "blending families," if they do as OP describes and refuse to care for each others' children, ever period. How is that "blending"?

It'll be interesting the first time there's an actual emergency for either of these people and they turn and ask the other to watch the kids because they need to go somewhere immediately, where they cannot take children with them, and they don't have any time to round up the other parent to appear by magic. [/quote]

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