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[quote=Anonymous]Maybe this will help: He *does* care about you, he just cares about his addiction more. You get to decide if the amount of care he's showing you, and the ways he's showing it, works for you. It doesn't. Personalizing it and framing it as "if only he loved me more, he'd..." is manipulative, likely co-dependant, and most importantly: useless. Regardless of how you see it, or how you wish he saw it, the facts of the situation are what they are: He's an addict who isn't willing to actively work on his recovery, and that's incompatible with your relationship goals. Feel your feelings, grieve what might've been, and then make the next right choice. You know what it is. [/quote]
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