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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Write a letter, tell her that it is not what you want, remind her that you love her and she will always be your priority but that you will do it only because she asked. You hope she has a change of heart and if and when she does you will still be there. I’m undecided on including a part about deserving an explanation, I think that you deserve one but I’m not sure it won’t make matters worse.[/quote] This will push her away. She knows it's not what he wants. You are trying to inflict guilt which makes people want to distance further. It is the rare case this happens out of the blue. OP may be in denial or may be minimizing things she found hurtful. Keep it simple. You can say you are open to talking and listening with an open mind or you are here for her when she is ready. I'm sorry OP. I am sure it is painful. Give her space. I hope she comes back and you both can have a healthier relationship.[/quote]
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