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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our son's birth mother is dangerous and the type to kidnap him and go speeding down the highway with police chasing her, creating a Lifetime movie.

We were advised to have a closed adoption and make it difficult for her to find us (him). He knows he's adopted.[/quote]Sounds like the adoption was shady[/quote]

Or, foster or other adoption.  There is a reason why some birthparents place, and often it is due to instability.[/quote]
Do you mean the adoption happened against their wishes? Is there no counseling or help available for the parent when that happens? How common is that?[/quote]

Really, do some research on adoption if you are going to comment about things you don't know.  There are all types of adoptions, including from foster care when a parent abused or neglected their child.  Yes, adoptions happen against the parents wishes and yes, there is help available but one is not obligated to use the help.  Kids needs come before parents.[/quote]

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