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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm all in favor of men doing their share but don't understand this post. What are you asking for? For him to find part time child care help?

If so, might I suggest that, rather than hiding his clothes, you just realistically think about what's fair and what you are capable of doing, and then tell him. So if it\s too hard to manage laundry because you are pregnant and have another child tell him that: honey, I'm too exhausted to keep doing your laundry so you'll have to do it. Maybe I'll be able to get back to it once you find us that extra child care I've been talking about. Repeat as necessary for things like making his dinner, cleaning up, doing errands for him, etc.

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She’s asking him to contact his HR to find out if they have a back up childcare benefit. She can’t do that for him. [/quote]

Op here. Exactly and it would help a lot if the younger one could go to daycare more. He goes to preschool 3 days a week. My work has 21 days of backup childcare and it resets every year. I pay a $10 copay. I know in the past his work pays for a care.com membership. You need to login in with work email. I can’t look into it myself as this is something he needs to find out and get access from HR for. His company generates 95 billion a year. I would be surprised if my work benefit is better. The daycare we use has a lot of spots so they are happy we are using the backup option each week. Dh complains the little one is too loud, wild etc when he works from home. It would benefit us all.

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