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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My cousin arrived to Thanksgiving this year fully decked out in designer items that are very recognizable — two Cartier line bracelets, Van-Cleef earrings, a Fergamo belt, a Goyard tote bag, Tiffany necklace. I could go on. And most of these items are new from the last time I saw her (where she was decked out in other jewelry and accessories). This is how she got off the plane. I know she and her husband make more than I do but they also have two kids in private school and she had lost her job not too long ago. It just seems so unnecessary and irresponsible. [b]Yes, I shouldn’t judge.[/b] [b]But it seriously makes me feel like she’s trying to visually show that she’s better than me and my family because I don’t have anything like this stuff. [/b]Am I jealous? Yea, a little, so that’s probably driving this but at the same time I can’t imagine going out wearing that much money. So what do you think if you see a woman with this much designer stuff on? [/quote] Yep. You shouldn't judge. And she doesn't "make" you feel anything. Your feelings are your responsibility. She's wearing what makes her feel good, what makes her feel confident. It's highly unlikely she is "trying to visually show that she's better than [you] and [your] family." She didn't focus on you while acquiring this stuff or while getting dressed. The world doesn't revolve around you (and your insecurities), OP. I don't think anything if I see a woman "with this much designer stuff on." [/quote]
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