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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You know what Op, this is my DH.  He SUCKED in a major way in his previous marriage and I do not blame her for getting out, not for one second.  In this marriage he is the PERFECT man, father, husband, partner, whatever you want to call it, he seriously grew up and did a complete change from his first marriage.  We run into his ex often (live in the same area and work in the same industry) and she freely admits to me how jealous she is of what we've got, btw, she's great and has moved on to a slightly older partner and seems happy.  But, do you ever get over your first love?  No easy answer to that but I wish you luck.[/quote]

Try to stay married for longer than 10 years and see how “perfect” he will stay. Cheaters repeat the same cycle in next relationships. My exH cheated on 1st wife. They divorced, he married me in 2 years. We were married for 18 years and he cheated on me the last 5 years of marriage with a colleague. Guess what? We divorced and he now dates… a new woman! Less than 1 years after breaking up with AP. I wouldn’t be surprised if he cheated on both AP and me, and was sleeping with multiple women.  My exH was also perfect (tried hard) for the first 12 years of our marriage (second for him). I was 12 years younger so no, it was not the lack of sex that drove us apart.

I’m now in a LTR with a man only 4 years older than me and it’s totally different. No regrets for divorce I know my exH will repeat over and over, and the only thing that can stop is would be his advanced age.

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