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[quote=Anonymous]I think the way to do it is like a pp did - asking questions. Don't TELL them "oh she spends too much, you don't want to date her", but definitely asking how she affords it all, does she have student debt, what are your (plural) long term financial goals together is a great start. Plant the seeds for THEM to have these discussions. If they haven't already. Maybe he will say "butt out mom, we've got it covered" in which case, you butt out. But if they haven't discussed this or even considered the future, it's a good topic to bring up.[/quote]
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