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[quote=Anonymous] So what if the older sister is biased against the boyfriend's looks? The other reasons are perfectly valid: that she's tired of hosting random boyfriends that don't pan out, and annoyed that her sister constantly chooses wrong, and doesn't want her kids seeing a rotation of different men come to her house. Why do you always expect your oldest to be tolerant and perfect and do all the work of hosting, when the sister you want her to host is struggling with basic relationships? That's not fair to the older sister, OP. And I suspect that you've been holding her to a higher standard all her life, and that you've treated the struggling younger sister more leniently. It's fine to be supportive of your youngest's issues, truly, but not always at the expense of her older sister. The older sister is wise to put her foot down, finally. [/quote]
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