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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That's all well and good, but I don't appreciate non-parents posting parenting advice on those specific forums, because you really have NO IDEA what it's like to be a parent until you become one.  None.

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I've heard this before and I think those who think this are just anti-social.  Just because you don't have children does not mean that you can't opine about children.  If that were the case then those who have never been an elected official should never comment on politics, those who have never been an educator should never comment on teaching, and so on.  As with any topic, there is knowledge and there is experience.  Yes, non-parents may be lacking in experience, but they may have knowledge that is useful that they can share.  There are plenty of experiences from being a hands-on aunt or uncle to being a teacher, nanny, daycare provider, pediatric nurse, etc that can be useful in talking about raising children.  In fact, I've met a number of non-parents who are significantly more knowledgeable and informed than many first time parents who have no clue.

You're obnoxious and condescending, PP.  And you're also wrong.  And lest you think I'm one of those non-parents, I'm not.  I'm a father of twins and I had a some useful experiences before I became a dad that were worthwhile sharing.  I've also learned a lot more since becoming a dad, but I would never discount someone's advice just because they were not a parent.  My mother taught me to listen to everyone's advice and comments.  Then sift through and find those suggestions that were useful and aligned with my way of thinking.  But you never know when you need a plan B or plan C or plan D and if your original thinking didn't work, then you  could again reference those previous experiences that were shared with you and pick something else.  Knowledge is a useful thing.  [/quote]

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