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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We’ve been dating two months but I’ve known her years. [b]Things have gotten fairly serious I would say although we’re officially together (yet). We were exclusive though.[/b] She’s met my family, we’ve talked about the future, planned a trip with her for next month, and how I could see being with her long term, etc.

This weekend she was traveling and I went out with my brother and his wife. I got a little toasted and we ran into a bunch of old friends, one being my sister in law’s maid of honor. We’ve all known each other and have been friends for many years, my brother and sister in law included. While out, I was at the bar talking to the maid of honor and had my arm around her. My hand wasn’t touching her butt or anything. My sister in law added the woman I was dating on social media prior to this. Well my sister in law posted us all out and you could see the maid of honor and I at the bar. I saw the post and decided to get ahead of things and told the woman I was seeing about the picture. Well she ended things with me. I told her we were just friends. She said it’s early and it’s better to end things now because she’s looking for someone serious. I told her I was/am serious about her though. She said having my arm around another woman and saying the things I’ve said to her don’t match up because that’s not the behavior of someone serious.

Isn’t this an overreaction? I did nothing with the maid of honor at all and told her how we’re all friends. I really saw a future with her, and told her so.[/quote]

I do not understand dating today. I sounds from the (typo ridden) above that you’re not “yet” officially together but you told her she’s the one, and you’re exclusive? What the hell? I literally cannot understand how all these things are true.

In any event, she wasn’t that into you and that’s why she dropped you.

It’s theoretically fine and harmless to put your arm around another woman you are only friends with. But…. Practically speaking, it doesn’t happen. Because men would generally like to avoid any misunderstandings. So men generally dont put their arms around other women. So the fact that you did just seems….. off?

The whole thing is gross. [/quote]

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