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[quote=Anonymous]My brother and I are this spacing and my kids are closer (2.5 years). I think 90 percent of how well it works is based on the personality of the kids. But I think there’s always going to be a limit on how close the kids will be (as kids) when they’re 4.5 years apart, because you’re always at different stages and different schools. My brother was in middle school when I left for college. My brother and I got along well as kids and before my kids, I would have said we grew up really close. But now seeing what that looks like with a 2.5 year age gap, I see how much closer we would’ve likely been had we been more similar ages.

I will also say my parents would tell you the age gap was great and it was wonderful having a more self sufficient kid while the second was a baby. But as the older kid, it led to a lot of initial resentment because the expectation was set really high for me to be self sufficient at 4 or 5. I’ve seen friends handle this age gap much better as parents, because they recognize that a 4/5 year old is still really young and needs attention. [/quote]

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