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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No man who is a good, involved father and a moral, respectable person would say this. Either a) you don't really parent the children you already have, so a couple more doesn't seem like a big deal to you. Or b) you don't actually want more children, but you do want to match with younger women, and you don't care if you waste their fertility window.

I'm an attractive divorced 40 yo mom and before I made "don't want children" a dealbreaker, I got dozens of you gross dudes slobbering over my profile begging me for a chance every day. As soon as I saw that you're 45+, "have kids" and are also "open to kids" you went directly in the trash because you're a useless loser who is not worth my time. You all deserved to be baby trapped into family #2 by desperate late 30s women who lied about being on birth control. [/quote]

Or (c) they want more kids and want to match with someone to have kids with.  That you don't like men who express that preference doesn't matter if you are a 40ish mom who already has kids and doesn't want more.  Why get all worked up over other people's preferences?  It took me a long time to make peace with the fact that not everyone needs to want me, just as I don't need to want everyone.  [/quote]

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