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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband just said no to everything. Trips, home repairs, even changing a light bulb. I’d have to beg and work so hard to convince him to do anything, and then if he finally agreed, he would take over and make it his way, I.e trip planning he’d say no and then agree but make it all the things he wanted to do without regard for me and the kids. It’s not a way to live with someone, and it took me many years but we are separated. [/quote] DP. Not the OP. I'm sorry you had to deal with that for years. I really wonder, when I read about people like your ex, if they have a form of ODD (oppositional defiance disorder) that is well masked and tolerable, and they put on their "best selves" for courtship, but then the mask slips after marriage. It's so toxic to the other spouse. I'm glad you got out. [/quote]
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