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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, I never suspected it, until I stumbled across it.

He was a predator (of other adult women who were lacking in self-esteem and power). I, it turned out, was his beard and bait - the nice, intelligent woman who bore his cute, smart, well-behaved kids.  A great father and husband would never be a predator - that was the beard part. It was also the bait for his APs - a guy who had such cute kids and an accomplished, attractive wife who, sadly, he no longer loves because the AP has captured his heart.

Needless to say I kicked him out. It took about 6 months of me in super-detective mode to unravel his lies. It took another 2 years to get in a position to safely tell him to leave.

To this day, I do not think he knows the magnitude of what I know.

He found another woman to marry. I don't know and don't care what he is doing behind her back. His presentation should have raised red flags (no custody of kids) but it did not.

I will never feel trust in any relationship again. Any guy could be doing this, and I would never know without the high level of effort I had to make.  I simply don't want to put that much effort into any relationship. [/quote]

I am sorry this happened to you but your ex sounds less like a “predator” than someone who was unhappy with his marriage, stepped out and got caught. [/quote]

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