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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I did this once to a guy I had known and liked for a long time. The reason was a subtle shift in the vibe - he seemed too emotionally detached in the heat of the moment. I wasn’t ok with that, so I shut it down. [/quote] This is me, too. I’m actually not avoidant, more anxious. If I sense that the other person is not really all in I will not sleep with them. I am ok to keep seeing them but the longer they dither, date/sleep with others, seem emotionally distant or in their thoughts, the more I lose interest. I am definitely willing to connect and want to connect deeply. Just not with someone who isn’t really available.[/quote] Yes. And my experience has been that the guy has no clue he is like this and will just keep trying and trying to replicate what he felt with whomever without addressing the root problem. [/quote]
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