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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It just sounds they are all dropping you as you are not particular vested into relationship. I’m like that myself (and generally was told I’m avoidant). The men I avoided were transactional, poor hygiene (I’m sensitive to smells); used pull in and push away tactics on me; appeared to be dating all over the place etc. One was too intense and needy (had to talk to me every day for hours and I got exhausted).

So I just drop at a minimum sign of a red flag that won’t make us compatible long term [/quote]

OP here.  This makes some sense.  I'm not transactional and I have good hygiene, but i don't usually get exclusive very quickly.  How do you get comfortable?[/quote]

These women are deeply insecure and also likely popular with other men. You should make her feel both incredibly secure and desired, and at the same time not being too much.

Don’t jump from woman to woman. Know what you want and focus on the one you like best. Give that relationship a chance to develop

Sorry but when a cute woman of any age dates, she meets 4-5 decent guys every week. There is a guaranteed one who will want to be exclusive right away,  and will outplay your attitude. She might sleep with you, but won’t bother wasting time if you don’t make her feel that same  way. 
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