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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Or he immediately claims I do the same thing or something else.

Mary, what do you mean? I did put it down. I am sure of it. You’re lying. You’re wrong!!! In any event, YOU left the cat food out last night, so how can you criticize me? And you’re so petty, always critical of me, and you don’t give me anything or meet MY needs (despite the fact that I have tried to be a perfect little wife all month)

(Argument escalates…)

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This is life with my DW. She has yet to do anything wrong in her life, and if she has its because I somehow did something prior which justified it. Currently she is not speaking to me because I asked her to apologize for something, which she knows she was wrong about, and is mad that I would bring it up[/quote]

If she knows that she did it, knows it was wrong, and isn’t going to do it again, do you really need the apology?

This is different than OP’s spouse claiming that he never did the thing or that he did the thing because she makes him do it.    [/quote]
the apology thing was just a tangent I went off on and is just another reason for her to be mad. She does exactly what OP is describing like the toilet seat as I tried to reverse the roles earlier
On the apology thing, first she denied doing it, then brushed it off. And yes somethings definitely require an apology when major boundary is crossed[/quote]

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