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[quote=Anonymous]You are describing my sister in law.

She experienced a lot of abuse and trauma as a child / adolescent. She has a vicitm mentality and likely has a personality disorder.

As a adult, she is the abuser. But she always feels justified in that abuse - if people just did things differently, she wouldn't be so angry and frustrated and lash out at them.

She would still tell you she is the victim as her only persepctive is that of a victim. She is a terror with a major anger management problem and a viscious and mean streak that she takes out on others where she will say the cruelest things she can in the moment.

My brother and their kids are the most passive, quiet people. They live their lives walking on eggshells, waiting for the next attack. In between she is sweet and kind and then wonders why my brother and the kids are still distant.

I know many on here will argue it isn't possible for a woman to be abusive and they are always only reactive to being abused by men and therefore they are only victims but it just isn't true.[/quote]

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