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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The kid isn’t addicted to alcohol insofar as they don’t drink daily or even weekly. [b]Rather, when presented with the opportunity, they drink until blackout drunk. [/b]We chalked up the first instance to poor judgment. A year later, it happened again—and it has likely happened a few other times that we weren’t aware of (when they were away/didn’t sleep at home).

They are definitely feeling a bit lost. Their best friends are off at college and their friends at school are branching off a bit (spending more time dating or involved in activities/commitments). My kid probably has too much time on their hands rather than anxiety or depression. But that’s on them; everyone needs to carve their own path, right?

The poor judgment is a primary issue for me. Choosing to loaf around or hang out with kids who prefer to smoke up or drink isn’t good. There’s a lack of drive. On a positive note, they maintain good grades and workout. They are generally considered as a “nice” good kid. Friendly.

I’m just worried they aren’t ready for college as the constant access to weed and booze. They seem to lack the ability to pace themselves and keep their wits about them.

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This is classic, textbook, alcoholic behavior. The daily drinking comes later when physical addiction/withdrawal sets in. [/quote]

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