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[quote=Anonymous]You will never know the real reason. I dumped a friend a few years ago and she thought it was out of the blue, but it wasn't. She had made very hurtful comments to me months before I ghosted her. I didn't call her out on the comments at the time because I knew she would make a big deal out of it and tell our friends, thereby amplifying a sensitive topic that I wanted to keep under wraps. So months later, when we got in a minor argument, I just ghosted her. She complained to friends she has no idea why I did that, and it's true.

So you might have been doing something that bothered her in the past and now she decided she's done with you, likely because something changed. It could be her weight or something else entirely different.

My advice (I think you posted about this repeatedly and I know what it's like to struggle moving on from something): Every time you think about her, shift your thoughts immediately to yourself, and how your behaviors and mental energy can better serve your to further your own values/goals. [/quote]

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