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[quote=Anonymous]Congratulations on starting to realize your parents are problematic. Your job now is to stand up to your family and yourself, and not let them railroad you. If you don't, you'll do as they please for however long they live and destroy your relationship with your wife and son in the process. What you need to do is stop responding. You respond once saying what you can or cannot do and after that tell them to stop. Don't see them every other weekend. Say you (and your family) have other plans. Only communicate if they behave normally. Be aware that they will tell other relatives all kinds of nasty things about you, made up if necessary, and you may hear from other relatives as well. Be prepared. The only way out is through. Realize that if you let them walk all over you, they'll never stop. Your own family (wife and son) gave you a chance to stand up to them. [/quote]
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