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[quote=Anonymous]How old are you and how old is your kid? I fit in age-wise with my first kid. Then I had two more kids much later and I'm older than those moms. I'm still friends with some of them but it's different from the mom friends who are my age. Make friends apart from mom friends. I'm "friends" with some of my kids' friends' moms (my age and younger), but these are generally seasonal relationships. Once the kids stop hanging out then the friendships fade. Even the ones where we al hung out all the time and vacationed together faded once the kids got older. I enjoy them for what they are, but my lifelong friends are my friends I made in HS. Do you feel like you used to fit in or did you never fit in? If never, then get checked out for autism or other issues. Then you could figure out the best track to find your people. Also go for people who like you for who you are and you feel the same. The saddest thing I see is moms chasing popular kids and their moms. It almost never works out for their kids and makes their kids feel like crap. You and your kids deserve friends who like you and you like them. [/quote]
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