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[quote=Anonymous]I think invasive is a better word than sexual abuse. To me, your mother was not getting any enjoyment or sexual enjoyment for following medical orders. Yes, it is an area which is an orifice which can be used for sexual purposes. But so could, say, someone's mouth. And if someone pulled a rotten tooth from your mouth against your protests, that wouldn't be considered sexual abuse, would it? I'm sorry you had to go through with that. It very likely was traumatizing and violating. My own child had some constipation but luckily I never had to do enemas. I can't imagine having to do that to her, especially if it were causing her pain and suffering. Most likely your poor mom was somewhat traumatized by the experience too! I recommend some somatic therapy to help heal and move forward. Practice good boundaries. [/quote]
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