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[quote=Anonymous]This was the standard approach for encopresus for a long time. Nothing in your post suggests it was even remotely sexual for your mother. That doesn't mean it wasn't legitimately traumatic for you. But sometimes medical treatments are traumatic. I had scarlet fever when I was 11 and had a high fever for days with delusions that if I pooped, all of my insides would poop out of me into the toilet. I remember writhing in pain, I had to go so badly, but I held it in for fear of my life. My father, on doctor recommendation, finally held me long enough to insert a suppository into my anus. It was SO humiliating and awful. For both of us. It was traumatic. But was it abusive? No. Was it necessary? I imagine so. When it kicked in, I pooped a "welcome back to life" bowel movement of the century and felt 4 million times better immediately after. It was worse for him than for me. [/quote]
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