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[quote=Anonymous]I definitely think you should maintain a schedule of face to face meetings at a minimum. And during those, be as friendly, interested, and non-confrontational as you can. Ask if there are ways you can contribute to their hobbies, goals, etc. If you can take the kids somewhere that you can walk and talk, like mini-golf, that might help. More than dining out. Do you have a living arrangement that your kids won't like? Be honest with yourself. I have a friend whose XH married his AP. The XH lives with AP's kids plus affair baby whose existence contributed to the breakup of the original marriage. So my friend's kid (an only) hates being there during 50% custody time. Some situations can't be fixed. Better not to rub a kid's face in misery in order to force them to "get over it", "grow up", "accept the things you cannot change", etc.[/quote]
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