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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]FWIW, I'm a guy, when I was in the office M-F, I was friends with many more women than men.  (though not just one woman, that's kind of weird).

But it was because the dudes in my office were all jerks.  Complaining about their wives, and their kids.  Staying until 9:00 at night just to hang out and talk football, not even for real work (even though they told their wives it was for work).

I didn't want to associate with them (which ultimately impacted my career, but whatever, there's more imporant things).

So I ended up making friends with some of the women instead[/quote]

Yes: chatting, maybe going out to lunch, occasionally going out after work with a group. But that's very different from "will text non stop. Most of the time being secretive."[/quote]

yes, this.  I always am friends with lots of men at work because i work in an industry that is 70% men.  I'm also friends with a lot of women at work. The men i'm friends with are also friends with other men.  I do have plenty of long, drawn out work conversations with some of these men where personal stuff comes out (vacations, career plans, etc) but nothing secretive and no nonstop texting.  When i meet their wives, their wives are always totally cool with me and happy to meet me.  It's pretty clear there is no weird vibes coming off my friendships.  [/quote]

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